I found a link for the Software update if anyone needs it. I haven't tried it yet but from all reports on the other forum it works and fixes the bluetooth connectivity issue and the iPod connecting via usb issue.
Hope it helps
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pr9l22cxab...dio_update.zip
This update is applicable to the following vehicles:
Model Built date
Fiesta: July 2008 – December 2011
Focus: February 2008 – January 2012
C-MAX: February 2008 – January 2012
Kuga: February 2008 – January 2012
Mondeo: September 2008 – January 2012
S-MAX: September 2008 – January 2012
Galaxy: September 2008 – January 2012
Transit: from June 2009
Ranger: from April 2009